Category: Divorce Orders


  • Modern Courts and the Division of Children:

    A System Without Solomon’s Wisdom In the ancient story from 1 Kings 3:16-28, two women claimed to be the mother of a single child. King Solomon, faced with their dispute, proposed a drastic solution: divide the child in half, giving each woman an equal share. The true mother, driven by love, immediately relinquished her claim…

  • Response Times in Divorce Decrees

    Introduction to Response Times in Divorce Decrees In high-conflict divorces, court-ordered response times in divorce decrees create deadlines like 24, 48, or 72 hours for ex-spouses to reply to messages. However, the original aim of these orders is to prevent stonewalling, where one parent ignores communication. While the intent is to foster cooperation, these rigid…

  • Ex Refuses to Use Our Family Wizard:

    What Can You Do? Co-parenting with a narcissist is tough, and tools like Our Family Wizard (OFW) are designed to streamline communication and reduce conflict. But what happens when your ex refuses Our Family Wizard? This refusal can disrupt high-conflict co-parenting and harm your child’s well-being. Here’s why narcissists resist OFW, the consequences, and actionable…